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093                                                                                                           05-20-2018

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY –HOW TO LIVE IN THE MOMENT- PART 1: SUBJECT BELIEF

I watched on YouTube a video entitled “How to Use Parallel Realities – Shift into an Alternative Universe.”

The speaker, Bentimho Massaro, explains the way we should look at our reality. Around 18 minutes into his talk he says:-

Past and future already exist and you are the present. You are the NOW.”

This leads him (19.30 – 19 minutes and 30 seconds) to say: –

“… that all realities were created at the time of the big bang and have been there ever since.”

Further on he states: –

“So you don’t create anything new – but you create a new relationship with something in your future which manifests as your NOW.”

In his eyes your NOW is what you call your consciousness. So, to manifest your reality you allow the pictures that already exist to become your NOW.

This is because everything exists and cannot be removed or added to. Therefore we all have many/endless pasts that would have belonged to you and you have chosen the ones you are experiencing.

Anything that can exist already exists.”

This opens a more empowered way of living your life. Therefore it changes your view of yourselves you create what he says is your “Vibrational Attitude.”

This means you attract a reality that vibrates to your conscious reality. This in turn means that your reality reflects, like a mirror, how you feel about yourself. You create your own reality.

If you accept this way of thinking then you can ask, how do I shift into a better Alternative Universe? Can you consciously shift into a Parallel Reality which you can live in right NOW? (22.28)

There are infinite Parallel Realities we can live in right NOW.” (25.30) “Therefore, we are not stuck in a reality of previous choices.” (25.45) “If we practice these principles in six months you will not recognise yourself. You can insert into your NOW anything you want.” (27.13)

“Your past has no structural relationships to your present. Like a movie, life is a series of separate events which we choose.”

So what does this mean? He says,

‘Increase your Vibrational Attitude by becoming happier, excited and joyful, which allows you to go up the ladder to a higher level of vibration.” (34.31) “Here you will see a new reality. Conversely, if you assume that you are a victim you will receive victim’s powers!”

He makes the analogy: –

“Like an iceberg, an increase in the vibrations (temperature) turns the ice to water and further increase turns it into steam, the highest level.” (36.39)

Learning

So what is the learning?

This is the 1st part of the summary of the video and there are five main leanings: –

  • Our future is already in front of us
  • We choose the NOW we want
  • This choice is made by moving into Different Universes or Alternative Realities
  • Like a movie each scene is different from and independent of our NOW
  • By changing our attitude or vibration we can improve or destroy our lives.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then discuss with your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

PARALLEL REALITIES – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6NYEthP0rh4&t=2199s

 

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091                                                                                                             07-05-2018

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY –HOW TO BE HAPPY – BECOME MINIMALIST SUBJECT: HEALTH

Last Saturday driving home from yoga class, I heard an interview on the radio that explained why I felt so happy.

The interviewees were Joshua Fields Milburn and Ryan Nicodemus, who call themselves “The Minimalists”. According to their website they have helped over 20 million people “live meaningful lives with less.”

Interestingly, they say, “Minimalists don’t focus on having less, rather we focus on making room for more:-

  • more time
  • more passion
  • more experiences
  • more growth
  • contributions
  • more contentment and
  • more freedom

Cleaning the clutter from life’s path help us make that room.”

WOW!

Unknowingly, I have started following this philosophy, now living in a small apartment with little furniture, few clothes and reduced social life. As well, I have become an intermittent faster only eating twice each day, no alcohol, no drugs or smoking, and no week without exercise and yoga.

So, by giving up I have gained happiness.

How?

Because now I can concentrate on the important things in my life, such as:-

  • Writing articles for my blog.
  • Helping my clients get into business.
  • Work with my business associates to set up new projects.
  • Listen to and help family and friends, and
  • Be mindful and aware of all events, experiences and people I meet.

Yes, cleaning out the clutter makes room to live, learn and become happy!

Learning

So what is the learning?

I learnt that by adopting a simple life I have become freer and happier.

Having more is a false understanding of happiness as it relates to using material things.

Happiness is an intangible aspect of your life made up of feelings and emotions form being free to enjoy all the experiences in your life.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then discuss with your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

THE MINIMALISTS- www.theminimalists.com

 

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Acne

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090                                                                                                            04-20-2018

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY –HOW TO GO FROM UGLY TO BEAUTIFUL! SUBJECT: HEALTH

The other day I met with a young female client who was preparing to go into business.

She revealed to me that at High School she had severe case of acne on her face, so much so that she was bullied mercilessly. She lost so much confidence and became so anxious that she had to have people take her from one classroom to another in the school. This lead to her suffering acute anxiety and depression.

So, sitting opposite her now, how could I reconcile the beautiful, young, vivacious, open and confident 22 year old girl in front of me without a blemish on her face, shoulders and upper arms? As well, she was wearing only light make up!

What happened? What made her change from ugly to beautiful?

Smiling broadly she told me her story.

Eventually her parents realised her situation and arrange through her doctor for her to have special treatment. She had three of these treatments which were more than normally recommended, and they began to improve her skim.

The bullying and online threats did not stop until she left school. So she received counselling which lead her to say positive affirmations to change from her negative thinking. As she said, it was like changing TV channels; she switched off thoughts of desperation to those that were positive and constructive. She still continues these practices daily.

Once she left High School she entered a training programme for makeup which has become her career. Here she made new friends who supported her, so she was able to start a new life.

Her confidence grew back so much that she was able to travel to the UK where she worked for 12 months before returning to New Zealand.

Learning

So what is the learning?

I learnt that there is always another option each of us can accept.

But there is the need for self-discipline; courage and love of self to develop so you can overcome issues and challenges.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then discuss with your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

HOW TO GET RID OF ACNE- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ar2hzZhs08U

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089                                                                                                                04-08-2018

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY –NO FEAR – TRUSTS THE PROCESS! SUBJECT: BELIEFS

My flatmate asked me to help him as he was going to Queenstown for work for two weeks.

I agreed to transport his Chinese clients who he had booked earlier. He had four bookings two in either week.

The first group of three I collected from the Domestic Airport in Auckland and took them to their hotel, which was only 300 metres away! They could have walked there!

The next day was the second trip for me as I had to collect the passengers from Auckland International Airport and take them to a hotel in the middle of the city. This was a very different job because I would have to drive through heavy traffic and choose the best route. This was going to be a challenge!

On the way to the International Airport I saw very large ques of traffic in both directions on motorway and I wondered again- which way to take my clients into the city?

I arrived early so stopped at a car park close to the International Airport. Out of curiosity, I asked a local taxi driver who said the congestion would clear after the peak period. Helpful advice but still left me wondering what the best route to use.

Then minutes before I had to leave to collect the passengers I received a text from my flatmate in Queenstown that resolved my dilemma.

Follow the instructions from the GPSwhich I had on my mobile phone!

Excellent advice but had never used it!

So I called him and he explained how to set it up – which I had to remember – as I was using the phone talking to him!

I opened the app and entered in the delivery address. Then another call to my flatmate for final instructions. Further adjustments and I had to leave to collect the two Chinese ladies.

I listened intently to the instructions and followed them closely as we travelled a new way for me, through a recently opened tunnel and arrived without delay at the correct address without incident!

Amazing!

Learning

So what is the learning?

I learnt four things: –

  • Don’t worry
  • Trust AI (Artificial Intelligence)
  • Follow instructions without question, and
  • Enjoy life!

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then discuss with your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

NO FEAR- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9H5SWjSdgdk

TRUST THE PROCESShttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nckEXuQnbYg

 

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088                                                                                                                  04-06-2018

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY –MAGIC MOMENTS – TWO AMAZING VIDEOS! SUBJECT:BELIEFS

By chance I decided to watch a video on Spirituality which lead to two magic moments.

First I decided to re-watch the full movie of “The Celestine Prophecy”. While the quality of the production (2006) s not high, the quality of the subject matter is compelling.

To see how the 9 Insights are developed was very satisfying.

Then, after checking out a few videos, I struck gold! I started watching “The Hidden Teachings of Jesus”. There was no name of the speaker or name of a production organization.

But this time the quality of production and content were astounding. For the first time I saw the link between Christianity and Yoga. Yes there is a strong link.

This was very interesting to me as I practice yoga and attend a weekly class.

The video suggests that Jesus learnt through yoga from the ages of 13 – 33. These practices had been in use for as long as 3,000 years at the time Jesus acquired them. Throughout the video there are numerous quotes from the Bible to support the claims in the 58 minute presentation.

As well, from my point of view, it shows how the Bible, written some 325 years after the death of Jesus, had edited out truths so that belief systems using the Bible will give a manipulated view!

Yes I know these are strong words but as I understand it, the First Council of Nicea meetings in 325was  designed to enable a document to be produced to satisfy a number of different belief systems and still retain power to the Catholic Church.

For example, the scrolls relating to re-Incarnation were not included in the Bible where as other Religions, such as, Buddhism, still retain this truth. Another perversion is the inclusion of the doctrine of “original sin” arising from Eve eating the forbidden apple and thereby, every other person is born with the same sin! All this did was to justify the presence of the Church who, by their own decree, have the sole authority to “forgive people their sins”!

Essentially the Bible does not tell the complete story, but Christians are expected to believe these half-truths or suffer a human created eternal domination in a contrived: Hell”!

So it was a great pleasure to hear another more truthful and acceptable explanation.

Learning

So what Isthelearning?

I learnt there is another more acceptable Truth and the Bible does not have the complete Truth, so we must keep an open mind.

I also wait for the answers to the 3 questions the author asked:-

1) Why are the Catholic and Christian Churches hiding thisinformation?

2) Why do religions not know where Jesus was from 13 – 30?

3) Why is there concerted action to keep the truth away from us?

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then discuss with your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

THE HIDDEN TEACHINGS OF JESUS- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Upj5U1jx_WA-

THE CELESINE PROPHERCY-www.youtube.com/watch?v=aQfoSKFqhjc&list=PL3J6fMlJhEElGcVyK5ye-PJueQocNmQDh

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087                                                                                                                             01-04-2018

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY – HOW TO LIVE BETTER? – SWITCH CHANNELS!            

SUBJECT: BELIEFS

Watched a video on YouTube “10 Pieces of Evidence that Alternative Realities Exist”. It talked of all of us living in “parallel universes”. According to Wikipedia, this means a parallel universe is a hypothetical self-contained reality co-existing with one’s own.

Accepting this theory and putting it into practice, a person should be able to manifest everything that they want!

Recently, after watching the video, I added ‘grateful” to the end of my affirmations of

‘I am happy, thankful and grateful for ……” and imagined being in a different reality for each affirmation.

Then I noticed my life started changing, or more accurately, started improving: –

  • Received extra money from two different sources;
  • Received an invitation to a wedding
  • Had extra success in advising a client, and
  • Helped my flatmate and a client resolve issues

So by switching to a parallel reality, what I wanted appeared or happened!

So, yes you do create your own reality.

Learning

So what was the learning?

Life is like being able to switch channels on TV to get different pictures

We must learn to switch our realities so as to move to the one operating like what we want.

You can use meditation to help the process.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then tell your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  – https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

PARALLEL UNIVERSES – http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ywn2Lz5zmYg

CREATE OWN REALITY http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hXYm4mXO-sg

 

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086                                                                                                                     02-11-2018

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY –HOW TO HAVE AN IDEAL RELATIONSHIP? SUBJECT: RELATIONSHIPS

“The Celestine Prophecy” by James Redfield pages 194 – 195 discusses the classic co-dependency relationship when it says: –

“He said that until we learn how to avoid this situation, we are walking around like a circle half complete. You know, we look like the letter C. We are very susceptible to a person of the opposite sex, some other circle half complete, coming up and joining with us – completing the circle that way – and giving us a burst of euphoria and energy that feels like the wholeness that a full connection with the Universe produces. In reality, we have only joined up with another person who is looking for their other half on the outside too.”

Further on he says: –

“This kind of illusion of completeness always breaks down into a power struggle.”

And in answer to the question “Can we still have romance?” he says: –

“Oh, we can still have romance, but first we have to complete the circle on our own. We have to stabilize our channel to the Universe.”

So how can we have an ideal relationship?

“By resisting the ‘love at first sight’ feeling for a while, by:  –

  • learning to have platonic relationships with members of the opposite sex;
  • have relationships only with people who reveal themselves, and
  • Understand who these opposite sexed friends really are on the inside to break down one’s own fantasy projection about that gender so that releases us to connect again with the Universe.”

 

Learning

So what was the learning?

We all have to learn to love ourselves first.

Then we have to learn to be patient and have a platonic relationship second.

Finally we have to understand our opposite sexed friends from the inside, which takes time.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then tell your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

CO-DEPENDENCY –http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oh7JRgYZK2k

PLATONIC RELATIONSHIPS-www.youtube.com/watch?v=lTi8I7GJvWo

 

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Story

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085                                                                                                               02-01-2018

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY –WHAT IS YOUR STORY? SUBJECT BELIEFS

In his book “Homo Deus” Yuval Noah Hariari on page 353 says: –

“We see then that the self too is an imaginary story, just like nations, gods and money. Each of us has a sophisticated system that throws away most of our experiences, keeps only a few choice samples, mixes them up with bits from movies we have seen, novels we’ve read, speeches we’ve heard, and day dreams we’ve savoured, and out of all of that jumble weaves a seemingly coherent story about who I am, where I came from and where I am going. “

And further on:-

“Some people live a tragedy, others inhabit a never-ending religious drama, and some approach life as if it were an action film and not a few acts as if as in a comedy. But in the end, they are all just stories.”

In my opinion theses “stories” are learning experiences we chose when we come into this incarnation.

Then on page 355 Hariari asks:-

“We are about to face a flood of extremely useful devices, tools and structures that make no allowance for the free will of individual humans. Will democracy, the free market and human rights survive this flood?”

In other words, is technology going to take us over?

Learning

So what was the learning?

We all have to learn to accept what we have

Or

Realise our beliefs are obsolete and learn to live with new technology?

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then tell your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

MY STORY –www.youtube.com/watch?v=2azx-L1tl0o

TECHNOLOGYwww.youtube.com/watch?v=bUV5CqMmxBA

 

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084                                                                                                                    02-01-2018

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY –WHY IT IS IMPORTANT TO SHARE SUBJECT CAREER

Yesterday I had lunch with some old friends, C and his wife S. It was sixteen (16) years ago when they first came to NZ from Singapore.

Wonderful

We swapped stories of what we had done in the past twelve (12) months. All of us in our own ways had been inventive and entrepreneurial.

As well as continuing with production of her range of skin care products, S had developed a new snack product that was very healthy as it was full of seeds and nuts and was attractively packaged.

C had helped her as well as becoming the sole Australasian representative for a Singaporean printing equipment manufacturer and print supplier. He also passed on to me some valuable tips on how to negotiate with Chinese businessmen.

In turn, I outlined the further developments and refinements I had made to my App and the fundamental lessons I was teaching to the owners of small start-ups.

Then we discussed various alternatives for marketing both the skin care and snack food products and agreed they needed to license or partner with another established larger NZ manufacturer so as to be able to scale up to commercial production.

In the afternoon over coffee we took some selfies, one of which is shown above.

Later that evening we exchanged texts and C sent the quotation below:-

“The best feeling in the whole world is watching things finally fall into place,

After watching they fall apart for so long.”

I am hopeful to enjoy this feeling in 2018!

 

Learning

So what was the learning?

Good things, like good wine, need time to mature,

I learnt to continue being patient and enjoy the journey rather than force desired results.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then tell your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

SHARING –www.youtube.com/watch?v=wODg1AKuRc8

ENJOY THE JOURNEYwww.youtube.com/watch?v=-kfLc1KSewY

 

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