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078                                                                                                                 12-11-2017

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY – HOW IMPORTANT ARE COINCIDENCES? SUBJECT: Beliefs

I have started re-reading, for the 5th time “The Celestine Prophecy” by James Redfield. It was very interesting as I saw things differently to what I had the previous time.

On page 6 it says:-

‘’Okay,” I said, ‘What is this experience we are looking for? What is the First Insight?’

She hesitated, as though unsure how to begin.

‘This is hard to explain,’ she said. ’But the priest put it this way. He said the First insight occurs when we become conscious of the coincidences in our lives.’”

Some might call it ‘synchronicity’ and the level of people experiencing this is increasing rapidly.

Then on page 8 it said:-

“’The Manuscript predicts,’ she went on, ’that once we reach this critical mass, the entire culture will begin to take these coincidental experiences seriously.’”

The other day, Tony, a business associate, mentioned he had a contact with the Salvation Army; I was keen to meet so he gave me the address. I approached them but it was not suitable. However, they advised contacting another branch.

Eventually I connected with the branch and made an appointment. The person I met was the right person and he said he would recommend my new idea to their committee.

You may say that was just luck!

But I have learnt that every person and event is in your life for a purpose, so I expect coincidence’s to happen and I always follow them up.

Learning

So what is the learning?

Learn to recognise coincidences and synchronicities and act on them.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then tell your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

COINCIDENCES & SYNCHRONICITIEShttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hQHHvhRdW9w

 

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077                                                                                                                        12-07-2017

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY – WHY SEX IS LIKE UPGRADING YOUR HOME SUBJECT: Relationships

An article headed, “Here I am again writing about that subject sex” in New Zealand Herald dated 6 November 2017 by Deborah Hill Cone. Her observation was:-

“Instead of thinking of relationships like a businessman doing a deal, I hope in future generations we will think of relationships, particularly with our kids, more as a creative collaboration.”

As an analogy, if you compare that in a relationship, sex is often the driving force at the start, but the demand diminishes over time and other elements of the relationship then hold it together.

So how is this like upgrading your home?

It is another form of a creative collaboration where the initial effort of deciding to upgrade your home, choosing the design .agreeing to the alterations to arrive at the picture in your mind of the finished project is, like sex, an exciting activity you and your partner are working on together.

But, the excitement diminishes after the event has been completed and as the elements of daily living take over.

So to rekindle the excitement, another project has to be started or another event planned.

Learning

So what is the learning?

Treat your relationships as Debora Hill Cone says:-

“… The relationship as an artwork that you and the other person are making together …”

Further on in her article she says: –

“Art collaboration is a messy risky process but you try to say yes to whatever comes up. You move apart and come together again.”

Relationships need to be worked on to satisfy both parties.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then tell your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

CREATIVE COLLABORATIONShttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-8_osSQetGY

CREATIVE HOME UPGRADEShttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z5i1tAJ7pZc

 

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Headache

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075                                                                                                                 11-25-2017

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY – WHAT CAUSES PROBLEMS IN YOUR HEALTH? SUBJECT: Health

The other day I spoke with two people who were either sick or looking after someone who was ill. And these two cases make me think of a third example.

Why were these people sick?

The first person is an older lady who is unable to walk easily and recently experienced severe pain from having kidney stones. What could have caused her to have kidney stones?

So I checked in my health bible, “You Can Heal Your Life” by Louise Hay. On page 187 she says the probable cause is – “Lumps of undissolved anger.”

That reason was justified because this lady was a perfectionist with strong opinions and she was angry because of restrictions caused by her health issues.

The second person was man in his 50’s who rang to tell me he could not attend a meeting that day because he had a dreadful cough, with sneezing and all the symptoms of a severe cold. It was unfortunate so we agreed to meet again when he felt better. Could there have been something that caused him to be like he was?

So again I checked the book to see what Louise said. On page 165 she says the probable cause is – “To much going on at once mental confusion, disorder. Small hurts.”

That explanation was justified, in his case, as I knew he had a lot on his plate.

Both these situations reminded me of one of my ex-partners who over the 20 years I knew her she had two knee replacement operations, shingles and now has Parkinson’s disease. What could have caused her to suffer this way?

So, for a final time, I checked to see what Louise Hay said about Parkinson’s disease. On page 197 she said the probable cause is – “Fear and an intense desire to control everything and everyone.’

Once again the explanation was accurate and pertained to the person.

However, understanding the cause is one thing, having the strength to make the necessary changes, is quite another mater!

Learning

So what is the learning?

To me if each of these people had investigated the possible cause of their health problem they could receive a guide or indication of the reason for their distress.

And to me, knowing what was the possible cause means they could learn to make the appropriate changes in their life.

Yes I know it is easy to say but hard to do. But if you can find out the root cause you have the opportunity to change.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then tell your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

CAUSES OF HEALTH PROBLEMShttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R0SFdmJrdOI

LOUISE HAYhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8rO-TLDyg8o

 

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Alarm

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074                                                                                                               11-23-2017

 MY KNOWING

 We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY – NEED FOR EXPECTED ALERTNESS SUBJECT: Health

Yesterday after yoga I had coffee with my teacher (one day she may become my guru!). She was in a situation of setting up to travel overseas and had to prepare for her absence.

We had our normal robust discussion about how she could operate. I found her approach to business difficult to accept from my experience as a business planner. Eventually I accepted her approach as a form of “expected alertness”.

Today I have been reading “The Twelfth Insight” by James Redfield where, on page 16, he says:-

“In practice it boils down to consciously expecting the next Synchronicity to come, which means we should go into a posture of ‘expected alertness,’ a mood that’s not that easy right now, because we always think we’re behind, with too much to do. But staying in this state of alertness helps us immediately, because it has the effect of ‘slowing down’ time.”

It seemed to me that my teacher had adopted this attitude expressed in her own words as, “the Universe will guide me.”

Earlier on page 14, Redfield says:-

“But each of us has to make a decision. Will we embrace this deeper spirituality, or go into fear and foreboding? It is a challenge of courage, but also of practicality. In some sense, events are forcing us to put our beliefs into action. The only way to survive the level of turmoil we are facing in the world is to pursue life in a different way.”

So here was an example of pursuing life in a different way by not forcing the issue, but being mindful of an expectant for a suitable outcome that will suit.

Learning

So what is the learning?

We must learn to be mindful and patient.

Redfield on page 15 says:-

“When we enter a flow of Synchronicity, clarity and aliveness is what we get. When we fall out of the flow, it is what we lose.”

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then tell your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

SYNCHRONICITY –https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JpacEItQRaA

EXPECTED ALERTNESS –https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w5XCvxI0Tjk

 

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073                                                                                                                 11-18-2017

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY – HOW TO KNOW YOUR TRUE SELF SUBJECT: Relationships

It is Sunday, warm, fine and sunny with a light Northerly breeze. We are now in the second month of spring here in the Southern Hemisphere and trees are blossoming, plants are growing and my Glorious flower stalks are shooting up.

I feel happy.

The final words of Deepak Chopra in his book, “Power, Freedom and Grace” are appropriate to consider. He says on page 211:-

“Happiness resides in the realm of spirit. To find happiness is to find your soul. To find your soul is to live from the source of lasting happiness.”

On the previous page he says: –

“Once you know your true self, you will know true happiness, the intoxication of love, spirit flowing in its pure essence – unimpeded, unrestricted, full of mystery, magic and adventure. “

Expressed in my words, I say; –

“To know yourself is to understand and learn from each experience, so you will then know happiness.”

The challenge then is how to find your true self. Chopra says, page 210:-

“Through your body-mind, you create and experience the world of objects and events in space-time. …The world is unbounded, infinite, eternal, joyful. And this can be your world if you want it. In this world, there is no limit to your power, freedom and grace.”

Learning

So what is the learning?

You have to learn to live beyond the illusion of the “world of objects, events and space-time.”

Once you know there is something beyond the material world and you find it, you will then know your true self.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then tell your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

YOUR TRUE SELF –https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s8UTe44AY1E

RECOGNISE YOUR FALSE SELF LOVE – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Q_UlQ0eBb4

 

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Uni

072                                                                                                                       11-11-2017

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY – HOW TO DANCE WITH THE UNIVERSE. SUBJECT; Relationships

While waiting for the technician to arrive to install a fibre optics cable, so as to get faster internet connections, I was reading “Power, Freedom and Grace” by Deepak Chopra page 188 where he says: –

“Make a commitment to keep your body free of toxins, both physical and emotional. Don’t contaminate your body with dead food and drink, toxic chemicals, toxic relationships, or toxic emotions in the form of anger, fear or guilt. Make sure that you nurture healthy relationships, and that you do not harbor resentments or grievances.”

The message is clear, watch what you are doing. Become healthy in everything you do.

Then he suggests: –

“Let your body dance with the universe. Let go of all constriction and tightness in your consciousness so that your body can relax into the rhythms of the universe. Move your body, exercise your body, and keep it moving. The more that you dance with the universe, the more joy, vitality, energy,creativity, synchronicity, and harmony you will experience.”

The benefits are now clear, when you let go, you dance with the universe.

The technician had a difficult job threading through the fibre optic cable the whole length of the apartment building. I congratulated him on his perseverance and was glad we were both free to dance our own dance with the universe.

Learning

So what is thelearning?

We all must learn to let go of constrictions and tightness so as to enjoy being in the flow.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then tell your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

Videos:-

LET GO – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h72r9NfWlO8

DANCE WITH THE UNIVERSE- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8BgcjOsXORg

 

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Self love

071                                                                                                                  11-09-2017

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY –        THE KEY TO HAPPINESS! SUBJECT: Beliefs

My Chinese flatmate made an interesting observation the other day. He said a difference he has noticed between Chinese and Western cultures is that in China, good and bad experiences in life are to be expected and should considered normal!

Recently when reading Deepak Chopra’s book “Power, Freedom and Grace” on pages 92 & 93 he says:-

“Happiness and sadness are different faces of infinite consciousness. Both are transient and you are neither because you are not a state of consciousness. You are consciousness itself expressing all of these states.”

Then he says: –

“That’s why the key to lasting happiness is to stop looking for it, and knows you already have it.”

And; –

“The real key to happiness is to live and play in the field of intelligence that is beyond positive and negative.”

Understanding this approach and learning to adopt this attitude can help every person deal with the issues of life.

Learnings

So what is the learning?

This is an important learning as Chopra says:-

“When we quietly reconcile ourselves to all the contradictions that life offers, when we can comfortably flow between the banks of pleasure and pain, experiencing them both while getting stuck in neither, then we have achieved freedom.”

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then tell your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

HAPPINES – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sDH4mzsQP0w

SELF LOVE – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EnXvXTzIjQ0

 

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Love

070                                                                                                                       11-09-2017

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY – GOD’S TWO WORDS…  SUBJECT: Beliefs

GOD has two words he says to you!

The first is LOVE. In his eyes everything is love.

The second word is YES. He agrees with everything you do.

You practise hard on the piano and pass your examinations. When you ask GOD, “Did I do well?’ he says “YES.”

If you don’t practise the piano enough and go out to parties and only get low marks in your examination or even fail, then when you say the same question to GOD, his reply is “YES!”

So from GOD’s point of view anything and everything you do is OK with him. He says ‘YES” to everything.

Same for LOVE.

Whatever, you do, GOD says “I LOVE you.”

So you can either give birth to your baby who is healthy or if you give birth to your baby who becomes depressed because of all the alcohol or drugs you have taken.

GOD says “I love you’ for both situations.

GOD does not judge.

Learnings

So what is the learning?

GOD only says LOVE or YES to whatever you do.

You have to learn that it is you that has the choice what you do, not GOD.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then tell your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

Say YES – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZMPhTLez_Ck

Say LOVE – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pdnxGx8fzOU

 

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Sad

 

 069                                                                                                                    11-06-2017

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY – HOW TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO IS DIFFERENT? SUBJECT: Relationships

Learning to be with someone different is very challenging.

Rodney Collin in his book “The Theory of Conscious Harmony” page 2 says:-

“The reason why some people do not understand each other is quite simply because they are at different points on a circle. It is not necessary that the different points should agree, and follow a middle course. On the contrary, each point must fulfil its own duty as purely as possible, without intimidating the duty of another, which has nothing to do with it.”

So you meet someone pleasant and organise to see them again. You find out their likes and dislikes as you find their position on the “circle”. Then you can decide to go further.

Collin, on page 1 explains:-

“It is the individual himself who in the end has to get in there and do the work, if he is to reap the harvest he wants. No one else can do the work for him, no one else can solve his problems, no one can persuade him or coax him.”

And while your parents and friends may have different opinions, you have to decide. But don’t forget to do a thorough investigation. Facts, not emotions!

On page 2 he says:-

“If people always remember that they cannot lose by experiment, they can only lose by trying nothing, much can be learned.”

So you have to take a chance. I suggest do it in stages. If you want a long term relationship, then don’t rush into sex as emotions will over ride realism.

Finally, on page 4 Collins says:-

I think the belief that these things can only be achieved with tremendous effort and self-mortification and shame and time, is that prevents us enjoying them at once.”

Make sure what you want and you are not intimidated by others and remember it is all a learning experience.

If it doesn’t work you move onto another. I know, I have tried it five times!

Learnings

So what is the learning?

Realise that everyone is different and at a different position on the circle you are on.

Because you now understand there is a difference in you possible partner, you can learn about them, about yourself and both of you together in a realistic not fanciful way.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then tell your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

For women – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IuV80wYRld0

For men – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=08nsvHZLNfE

 

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