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117                                                                                                             17-11-2018

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation we can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY – HOW TO HELP A FRIEND LIVE IN THE MOMENT SUBJECT: RELATIONSHIPS

 Have you experienced the situation of trying to help a friend do, learn or change? And your friend does not do what you suggest? The question is – how long do you try helping them?

Yes, they are your friend and you can see clearly what is holding them back- but they won’t accept your suggestion. They may even become angry at you! When is enough enough?

For example:-

  • My ex-flatmate, who is Chinese, was working for a Chinese owned and managed company here in Auckland. The Owner/Manager would text his staff at all times of the day and night and expect his staff to be available at all times. I suggested he approach his boss but my flatmate was unable to tell the Owner/Manager of his poor management style. Eventually he left the company.
  • My current flatmate is studying Christian Theology and as part of her training she had to give a preaching to her class mates. Afterwards she was severely criticised, in private, by the Director of Studies. He said instead of “preaching” where you pass on lessons from the Bible, she had made a personal statement and not quoted enough from the Bible. I advised her to ask for a re-assessment but she decided to leave the class and change courses.

 Learning

So what is the learning here?

I recommend that with all friends to not hold onto hurts and anger and live in the moment which means:-

  • Do offer or undertake what you think is necessary for your friend.
  • But if they do not accept your help, then let them go.
  • It is not your duty to change them.
  • Do what you can and let them chose which way they want to go.
  • Remember, we are all here to learn in our own way so live I n the moment.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then discuss with your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  – https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

The Power Of The Present Moment – Living In The Now

 Want to be happier? Stay in the moment | Matt Killingsworth

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qy5A8dVYU3k

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116                                                                                                           15-11-2018

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation we can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life. Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY – HOW KNOWING YOUR ARCHETYPE CAN HELP YOU SUBJECT: HEALTH

Archetypes are underlining mythic themes that can be found in all races and cultures at all times.The archetypes are ageless roles or key stereotypes that exemplify different forms of behavior. They often appear as the main characters in legends, fairy tales, Shakespearean dramas and Bible stories.”

This definition is taken from the book “Soul Psychology” by Joshua David Stone page 235. On the next page he continues:-

“Every person who has ever lived on earth, or ever will, fits into one of these twelve archetypes or mythic themes. That is why the study of this science is so important. The ultimate goal in your final incarnation on earth is to integrate all of them and be victimized by none of them”

Further down that page he lists the archetypes which are also given the names from the diagram above:-

1 Destroyer – Creator                            7 Ruler – Ruler

2 Fool – Jester                                          8 Seducer/Seductress – Lover

3 Innocent – Innocent                            9 Seeker – Explorer

4 Magician – Magician                          10 Servant – Everyman

5 Martyr- Hero                                      11 Warrior – Outlaw

6 Patriarch/Matriarch – Caregiver    12 Wise One – Sage

On page 238 he continues:-

“The most important thing is not to judge one’s self. Living out all these themes, whether in a positive or negative manner, as they are all part of the process.”

Further down, he says:-

“It is also important to remember that every archetype or role has an opposite. This is why you can’t in truth identify with any single archetype, but must embrace all of them from the position of the Witness self.”

Learning

So what is the learning here?

Stone gives the answers on page 238 as:-

“When you integrate all the archetypes you have infinite possibilities of expression and are not stuck in one role. You have all of them available in their positive aspects when you need them.”

Further on he says:-

“… the goal is to reject the negative ego and lower-self expression and always attune in oneself to the soul and higher-self expression.”

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then discuss with your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog: – https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

Introduction to Archetypes by Jannette J. Sanchez

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dZwLeZr-k-Q

WHAT IS MY ARCHETYPE?] Find Out Who You Really Are – Archetype Calculator and Reading

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YMkS2VYiLlE

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115                                                                                                               11-10-2018

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation we can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY – HOW TRUTH HEALS SUBJECT: HEALTH

 “Truth Heals” by Deborah King is a progressive book based upon her own life, especially as a child and teenager.

In her introduction she says:-

Telling the truth is about freedom. It is about joy and peace and living a life that is meaningful, powerful, connected, and loving.Ultimately, telling the truth is about feeling good in your own skin, unencumbered, free, and having the life you want to live.”

 The she asks the big question;-

“So why do lies so often seem nicer, tidier, easier.”

And her explanation is correct.

“The truth is often uncomfortable – because so much shame and guilt are attracted to it, because it has been suppressed and left unspoken for years.

The truth is a force of such magnitude it demands to be known, one way or the other. If buried, the truth will push its way to the surface.”

 This then results in:-

“Denial or suppression of the truth will manifest as ill health, dysfunctional relationships or financial problems. The truth does not remain silenced or suppressed comfortably. It may take a lifetime, but the truth will win out.”

 Further on in page 7 she says:-

“Life experiences, emotional upsets, surgeries, accidents, and trauma of any kind can shock and impair our energy systems. If these experiences are not processed and released over time, a lack of energy flow in some area of the body may manifest as illness or other problems.

 Finally page 9 she observes:-

“Knowing our own truth is crucial, but it may not be smart or even safe to confront others with it. Getting in touch with our memories is very freeing, but always use good judgement as to sharing the details of that truth with others. Laying it on others who “can’t handle the truth” may only create more hurt and pain.”

Learning

So what is the learning here?

Accepting that “Truth Heals” means having the courage to disclose your inner most fears to release the restrictions you have placed on yourself.

Learn to overcome your fears, worries and anxieties by concentrating on the benefits you will gain of freedom, joy and peace.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then discuss with your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  – https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

Truth Heals – Deborah King

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=itYHEJKEbhU

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114                                                                                                      05-11-2018

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We are all here to live every situation we can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY – HOW TO REMAIN CREATIVE SUBJECT: CAREER

 All creative people experience a “block” at some time in their creativeness. Writers call it “Writers Block” and Artists say much the same as “Artists Block”.

And even when the new ideas are flowing there is always much time to be spent on bringing your work to its final and presentable level through careful checking and editing.

 So what can be done to stop yourself drying up – creative-wise? Here are my top five suggestions:-

1) Write down your ideas as and when they come to you. Keep a note book, folder or page on your phone to record your thoughts together with a date. By creating a store of ideas you can refer to them at times of need!

2) Be open to new ideas by experimenting and trying new ways or things. You become a magnet and attract new ideas. For example I often help my clients by suggesting how they can grow their business through transferring their systems to another country, create a franchise or expand through a joint venture.

3) Allow yourself to make mistakes. Don’t try to be a perfectionist. In this case while you should keep your experiences private it is important you allow yourself to experiment knowing you will make mistakes and these are part of the journey.

4) Have another music score, painting or article you are working on at the same time, so you can move to another when your creativity on the first dries up. This is like “Lateral Thinking” created by Edward de Bono where you deliberately chose a new subject to force your mind in a new direction.

5) Allow yourself to write, paint or musical score “garbage” to keep your inspiration high as you try all angles. This will help you extend your area of inspiration.

Learning

So what is the learning here?

You must learn to:-

  • Prepare to be creative by allowing yourself time to experiment.
  • Be ready for new ideas by having a system of recording them.
  • Be open to making mistakes and don’t punish yourself for them.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then discuss with your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  – https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

 How to Boost Your Creativity

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_NHu6gM91aA

 How to Overcome CREATIVE BLOCK – A Different Perspective!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lh17KFLbuEE

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113                                                                                                                           11-27-2018

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation we can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY – HOW YOU KNOW YOU ARE LIVING FROM SOURCE SUBJECT: BELIEFS

 It is one thing to live in the illusory materialistic world of your consciousness. However, it is entirely another matter when you are living from Source or God. How do you know?

Deepak Chopra in his book “Power, Freedom and Grace” gives the three signs on pages 145 – 150.

 The first sign that you are living from the Source is a lack of worry.You don’t worry about anything.If you are connected to Source, what is there to worry about? So you feel light-hearted, happy.You don’t get offended by the comments of others, you don’t feel obsessive about having your own way, and you don’t experience resistance to what is.

You experience effortless ease, spontaneity, and no resistance to what is happening around you.”

Further on he says:-

The second sign that you are living from the Source is the experience of synchronicity and meaningful coincidence.Why synchronicity and coincidence? Because both of these are expressions of the infinite organizing power of pure consciousness.”

Later he says:-

Lastly, the third sign that you are living from the Source is that you know yourself as a creator, not a victim. You realize that the world is a mirror of your thoughts, your feelings, your desires, and your interpretations. You know that every situation, every relationship, every event you experiences is mirroring something inside you.

When you don’t like what is happening in your world, you don’t try to correct it by looking outside yourself. That would be like polishing the leaves of a plant instead of watering the roots.”

Learning

So what is the learning here?

Chopra provides the learning on page 149 as:-

“No problem on Earth can be solved by addressing it at the level of the problem, but every problem can be solved at the level of Spirit. So you go beyond the world of illusion, the mask of appearances, to the invisible world of Spirit.

In the world of Spirit, you find the creator of both the personal body-mind and the cosmic-body-mind. At this level, you do not even struggle with the problem; you rise above the problem.

And in doing so you create a new solution.”

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then discuss with your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  – https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

 How To KNOW if You Are A Source Player & Determine Who Else Is A Source Player & Source Truth

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6IYt5owDg9w

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112                                                                                                                      27-10-2018

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation we can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY – HOW TO UNDERSTAND PREDICTIONS SUBJECT: BELIEFS

 Twenty three years ago in 1995 I was a member of the “Atlantean Connection” a Spiritual group that listened and followed the teachings from Hilary Elvidge, a Direct-Voice Channeller of Bhuso, Rally and Panachet

Bhuso last incarnated here some 3,000 years ago as the Spiritual Leader of a small tribe in Africa. He is a Teacher.

Rally presents his Elizabethan lifetime as Sir Walter Raleigh when his learning was one of “operating despite fear”.

Panachet channels from an early Atlantean lifetime when she used Gem Elixirs and Crystal Healing.

Each week up to twenty or so followers would pack into her lounge sitting on chairs and the floor to receive and discuss the wonderful readings received from the Spiritual Guides.

Hilary and her husband Tim would also publish a quarterly magazine containing articles channelled from each Spirit Guide. Fortunately I have kept copies of these magazines and today I decided to re-read the magazine issued as “The Atlantean Connection – Autumn 1995”.

Here are some of Rally’s Predictions for 1995.

“The effects of the last two years which I have predicted will continue, many on a grander scale. More floods in some places and droughts in others, for example. It will become startlingly obvious this year that the Climate changes are most definitely with you. The effects of the droughts will be very sad, with many areas of India and Africa suffering badly from famine.

In Indonesia there will be distress on several levels this year. There will be volcanic eruptions, earthquakes, and even more distressing, tremendous oppression becoming even more evident.”

Not only have these events happened, they are still happening! Further on he says:-

“In the Southern Hemisphere, continued flowering of psychic and spiritual awareness takes place. Whole populations experience a gentle opening to accepting intuitive knowing. The Southern Hemisphere still leads the world in the numbers of people experiencing expansion of the spiritual self.”

May be this is why here in New Zealand there has been substantial increases in immigrates and tourists arriving in record numbers?

However, not all predictions were accurate, for example:-

“The British Monarchy will survive the year. Charles will eventually marry Camilla, then pale into the background to live happily ever after. Dianna will stagger from one bad relationship to another for some time to come. The Queen will keep her crown until well into her eighties. The Queen Mother will not quite get to receive the telegram from the Queen.”

Learning

So what is the learning here?

There are two learnings here:-

1) Accurate predictions can be made but we need to be able to learn to listen and understand.

2) The world we see is an illusion as spirit guides can see our destiny into the future.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then discuss with your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  – https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

 How To Predict The Future

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sRN34Fd0n2E

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111                                                                                                     10-14-2018

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation we can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life. Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY – HOW TO GET A CLOSE LOVING RELATIONSHIPSUBJECTRELATIONSHIPS

My Chinese Professor friend believes there is now a rise in the Matriarchal (Female based) system at the expense of the Patriarchal (Male dominated) system. He calls it a “Transition Period”.

In his opinion this “Transition Period” places greater demands upon females. One of the areas that needs more attention is what causes many of the mental stress and issues now being experienced by females

CAUSES

One of the causesare ”Enduring Vulnerabilities” which are the result of surviving painful events and relationships during our early lives. Examples of these are quoted from “The Relationship Cure” by John M. Gottman:-

·        Death of a loved one

·        Being assaulted or physically abused

·        Any form of sexual assault

·        Witnessing violence

·        End of a significant relationship

·        Marital problems

·        Getting fired

·        Failing at school

·        Loss of belongings from a natural disaster

·        Abandonment

·        Emotional abuse

·        Life-threatening illness

·        Depression

·        Living with addiction

·        Surviving war, terrorism or civil strife.

An example could be a women in her mid-thirties who has never had a close loving relationship with a man because of a situation where in her early teens she moved with her family to another country, left her friends, had difficulty meeting new people and lost the close support of her father because he had a demanding job.

She felt abandoned and now cannot trust being close to a man as she is scared of experiencing the pain again. She hides behind her extended family obligations so that she has an excuse of being too busy to develop a relationship with a man.

OTHER SIGNS

Often a woman with “Enduring Vulnerabilities” become a “BBIIIIIGS”, another name I have created, as they find it hard to form a close loving relationship with a male. This term “BBIIIIIGS” can be explained bythe main characteristics they show. These are:-

B         Beautiful         Attract sexual predators

B         Bossy

I          Intelligent       Often highly qualified

I          Independent

I          Impatient        Often very demanding

I          Intolerant

I          Intimidating   Scare men away

G         Girl

S         Successful       Does not need a man for financial support

An example could be a women who is successful in her career as a solicitor or accountant. In her daily business relationships she is professional, efficient and successful. However, when she returns to her smart modern apartment her female flatmate has to listen to and watch her other personality appear – lonely, unsure, insecure, anxious about how others see her and unhappy about how she looks. The effects of having an “Enduring Vulnerability” are with you your whole life.

WHAT TO DO

So what are the steps for getting a close loving relationship:-

First females need to know and understand their “Enduring Vulnerabilities”, remove them and then replace them with “Female Vulnerabilities” a name I have created for what a male would refer to as a “softness in her character that requires his protection”.

HOW TO CHANGE

The steps to follow are:-

1) Carry out a self-evaluation such as those created by John M Gottman in his book “The Relationship Cure”.

2) Accept that through re-incarnation you have chosen these issues so you must also have the power to rectify them.

3) Organise to see a Life Coach or Psychologist either online or in person. Only approach people that you have received a positive referral.

4) Arrange to have a clearing either in person or online. Once again onlyapproach people that you have received a positive referral.

5) Use a self-management app to help make your changes.

6) Adopt a new personality and create your own “Feminine Vulnerability” that will attract and hold your new loving male partner.

EXPECT TO CHANGE

In your meditation go into a Parallel Universe and live the life you want building on the positive feelings you are creating. Enjoy feeling and seeing yourself having achieved your new life.

Learning

So what is the learning here?

There is worldwide change happening with the rise of women taking more responsibility.

As well, there is an increase in the number of women experiencing “Enduring Vulnerabilities” which restricts them in achieving close loving relationships.

The lesson is to follow the six steps to change so you can create your own reality,overcome your “Enduring Vulnerability” and so become happier.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then discuss with your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog: – https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

10 RELATIONSHIP TIPS EVERYONE NEEDS

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_qxJOXdf8q8

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110                                                                                                                       07-10-2018

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation we can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY – HOW THE MIND INFLUENCES REALITY     SUBJECT BELIEFS

 It was an illuminating day with two major reasons.

First I watched the video How the Mind Influences Reality + 3 Ways to Control Manifestation and leant these points:-

  • Most people only think they are a material person and don’t consider the powerful “Sub-Consciousness” that controls us.
  • Our limited perception means we follow a linear time based journey, but our mind can chose different directions at each moment.
  • So our five senses are only electrical signals in our brain, Therefore we are not part of the outside world, because the world is inside us.
  • The world is a mirror or a reflection of what we are which means our mind can take control.
  • Unfortunately, most people let the brain run on a default programmre and do not realise that it is a machine to be used in a purposeful manner.
  • We can consciously alter our brain to create our own reality.

The three suggestions of how you make this happen are: –

1) Go Outside Your Normal Routine- Of the 60,000 thoughts we make each day over 90% are the same as the previous day so challenge yourself with new thoughts.

2) Dream Yourself Into a New Reality. – Choose your dreams as they will become your reality.

3) Tell Yourself the Best Feeling Story – Choose the stories you want to dream about. Make them positive and happy. Go into Parallel Universes for the new experience.

The second major event of the day was meeting Xiao Yu, a Chinese Professor of Buddhism based in Beijing, who was visiting New Zealand. He is the author of a new work yet to be published called the Diamond Sutra: “Diamond Prajnaparamita Sutra”. Paramita is a Sanskrit word .Through his wife as a translator I was able to have a brief discussion with him and these were the main points:-

  • Worldwide there is a reduction of followers of a “One God” concept and a rise of an “Overall Spirit” approach to beliefs.
  • There is a link between three major beliefs such as Toltec (Mexico and Peru), Taoism (China) and Tantra (India) referred to as the “3T’s” where the theme of their beliefs is “Way of Life”.
  • These concepts support a “New Age” approach that civilization at present is in a process of transition on a worldwide scale.

 

 

Learning

So what is the learning here?

There is worldwide change happening in our belief systems.

Understand that your thoughts create your reality.

The lesson is to practise creating new positive thoughts all the time so you can create your own reality, link into the “Way of Life” movement and so become happier.

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then discuss with your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  – https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

 How the Mind Influences Reality + 3 Ways to Control Manifestation (law of attraction)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FUJDQ8H5Efc

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