Month: December 2017

Now I Know

Syncro

NOW I KNOW

082                                                                                                                 12-29-2017

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY –HOW TO RECOGNIZE SYNCHRONICITY SUBJECT: RELATIONSHIPS

One day earlier this month was an amazing day for me. I awoke to a beautiful fine warm (25C) day here in Auckland, New Zealand.

After hanging out my washing, I drove several kilometers to where I act as a consultant helping with the preparation of Business Plans for small start-ups.

At 10.30am I met the first client, a solo mother wanting to set up a make-up and waxing business from her home. She had been ill recently and had a number of family issues to deal with, which to me appeared to stem from her feelings of unworthiness.

At 11.30 am the next client arrived. She was a very experienced and busy person using a “phantom (artificial) mare to collect seamen from horses for artificial insemination! I’m glad I’m not a stallion!

At 12.30 pm I met for the second time, the client I outlined in post 081. She is also a solo mother and she had brought her daughter of 12 years, who was tall enough to be taken as being several years older.

The preparation of her Business Plan was on track and it outlined how she was going to re-educate, re-train and restore minimum hygiene standards in schools, community groups and aged care centres. She had the passion of a Crusader.

Once the interview was finished I had a break before meeting the next client, so the three of us had lunch at a Sushi Bar. This is where she told me she was a Lay Preacher and some of the successes she had had through helping others accept Jesus the Christ into their lives.

I learnt the difference between Christianity and the Christian Religion and I also learnt we had very similar beliefs as regards Spirituality. Several times she said, ‘every experience a person has is a learning experience’. To me it was as if I was talking to myself in front of a mirror!

This was synchronicity at work!

We agreed to meet after I had finished with the last client for the day. Later, outside I met with her and she said she had been “told” to give me a blessing which she did while the three of us stood on the footpath beside a school playground!

For me it was an unreal but amazing experience! It was moving, powerful and transformational. Tears welled up in my eyes as she gripped my hands and spoke so forcibly and eloquently. She is a natural preacher and I felt enlightened.

Is this how God works?

Learning

So what was the learning?

I learnt to be open, aware and mindful of her and everything she said as I recognised this was synchronicity at work.

Maybe this the start of a Spiritual Relationship?

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then tell your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

SYNCHRONICITY – www.youtube.com/watch?v=DhLMi152USU

CHRISTIANITY –www.youtube.com/watch?v=cot5v_qY8Ow

 

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Now I Know

Drama

NOW I KNOW

080                                                                                                                  12-27-2017

MY KNOWING

We are all here to live every situation you can imagine, good or bad; right or wrong; positive or negative. Why? So we can learn from the experience as part of the adventure of life.  Murray Kibblewhite

CASE STUDY –HOW TO CLEAR YOUR C.R.A.P.? SUBJECT: Beliefs

As discussed in posts 076 and 079, we all have “enduring vulnerabilities”  from which we have developed “control dramas” So how do we eliminate or clear our “Controlling Responses And Processes” (C.R.A.P.)

In his book, “The Celestine Prophecy”, James Redfield says, on page 127:-

“Each of us go back into our past, back into our early family life, and see how this habit was formed.

Further down he says: –

Each person must reinterpret his family experience from an evolutionary point of view, from a spiritual point of view, and discover who he really is. Once we do that, our control drama falls away and our real lives take-off.”

Redfield then explains the four control dramas on page 128 & 129:-

Interrogator – they ask questions of another with specific purpose of finding something wrong.

Intimidator – they create fear in you by threatening you either physically or verbally.

Poor Me – everything they say or do puts you in a place where you have to defend against the idea that you’re not doing enough for them.

Aloof –they attract your energy by remaining distant so you have to give them extra attention.

There are other ways of clearing your “control dramas”. For example the Church of Scientology has a proven and effective system using “auditing” and “the purification programme” using exercise and spas to sweat out toxins.

Learning

So what is the learning?

Once you understand your own: control drama” we are free to continue with it or consciously cease using it.

If we let it go then, as Redfield says on page 131,

“… We can find a higher meaning for our lives, a spiritual reason we were born to our particular families. We can begin to get clear about who we really are.”

All life’s experiences are opportunities to learn. The challenge is to decide, what is the real lesson to be learnt?

How to use:-

1) Accept you need to change your Attitude and Actions on a daily basis.

2) Read, view, discuss and learn other ways. Set time aside daily to study.

3) Practice a new action until it becomes a better habit. Then tell your friends.

Check out these links:-

To the blog:  –https://projectlel.wordpress.com/

CLEAR CONTROL DRAMAS -https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R3oU5uPn8B4

 

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